Popular Post ashley6 Posted January 2, 2014 Popular Post Report Share Posted January 2, 2014 So, as I finally finished my college degree (yaay!), it means it's time for me to start looking for a big girl job. I'm really nervous about starting this new chapter. Of course I'm dreading the interviews but more than that, I'm uncomfortable thinking about a 9-5. I haven't had to push myself much in terms of career since quitting adderall, so it's going to be a new experience for me. While I'm SO excited, I'm scared at the same time. I think it's a plus that I haven't been on adderall and worked a "big girl job," so it will be starting with a clean slate; however, it's going to be stressful. New chapters really are exciting, and I have no idea what I actually want to do, so I guess this is a time for me to find my niche, if that will ever even happen.! One more thing I find to be positive is I've been pretty complacent this far in quitting, and I'm okay with that, but I think change will be a good thing for me. I'd appreciate any advice for those of you who have been in similar situations (I know many of you have)! 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustinW Posted January 2, 2014 Report Share Posted January 2, 2014 I don't have any real advice for you, but I have moments of fear when contemplating any type of change at this point in recovery so I am very impressed by your excellent attitude and bravery! I'm sure that you've said it before but my memory is crap, what is your career path? 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Cassie Posted January 3, 2014 Popular Post Report Share Posted January 3, 2014 Get a job that's fast paced and stimulating where you have deadlines and don't have a lot of down time. I had to quit my last job because it was too boring and slow without artificial stimulation (librarian). Other than that i don't really have advice. All jobs kind of suck - that's why i turned to adderall in the first place. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cat Posted January 3, 2014 Report Share Posted January 3, 2014 It's great you get to enter your career with a clean slate off adderall. If you've never worked a 9-5 before, know that the first few weeks those hours always seem long and unbearable, not just for recovering adderall users but for everyone. You'll get used to it though. Other than that I don't have much advice. Ditto to Justin's question, what's your career path? 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jon Posted January 3, 2014 Report Share Posted January 3, 2014 Congratulations on finishing your college degree. I know what a heavy weight this was for you. Now, on to the next chapter... call it liberation, a time to experiment. Follow your heart, not the money. I know that's easier said than done, but you will be so much more engaged, if you love what you do. Don't be afraid to make some mistakes when seeking the right job. It will probably take some trial and error. I love this quote by Ann Dillard that may be relevant for your situation: You've got to jump off cliffs all the time and build your wings on the way down. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quit-once Posted January 3, 2014 Report Share Posted January 3, 2014 Ashley, it is more than a new chapter - it is an entire section of your biography that you are beginning, and right now you are just drafting the outline. Keep an open mind and look for something that both interests you and challenges you regardless of what field your degree was in. If you are lucky, you will be working the rest of your life. Might as well have a job or line of work you enjoy and the money will naturally follow. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zerokewl Posted January 4, 2014 Report Share Posted January 4, 2014 Jon you are so wise. Congratulations on finishing your college degree. I know what a heavy weight this was for you. Now, on to the next chapter... call it liberation, a time to experiment. Follow your heart, not the money. I know that's easier said than done, but you will be so much more engaged, if you love what you do. Don't be afraid to make some mistakes when seeking the right job. It will probably take some trial and error. I love this quote by Ann Dillard that may be relevant for your situation: You've got to jump off cliffs all the time and build your wings on the way down. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ashley6 Posted January 10, 2014 Author Report Share Posted January 10, 2014 Thanks for all of the feedback. There was some good advice from you all. To answer your question, my major was human development/family studies. I thought I wanted to go into social work, but I don't know anymore. I also thought I wanted to work with people dealing with addiction, but I don't know on that either. I wouldn't be surprised if I get a job completely out of my field. We shall see! I'll be keeping you all posted/asking for advice 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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