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  1. My husband is on adderall and he is not even thinking of quitting. It has helped him at work and in general he feels better and more productive. My problem is that I constantly feel like a lazy slug compared to him. He is always busy on some project. If I ask him what he has to do on any given day, he lists off about 10 things. When we do spend time together he is focused on other things. If we watch a movie, he is on his phone the whole time playing a game while we are supposed to be watching the movie. If I look at my phone he will say "is this boring you?" He is easily frustrated with me to the point I don't even want to have conversations with him anymore. He gets annoyed if I take too long giving him information or if I make a mistake he constantly corrects me, without really seeming to engage in the conversation. He may ask how my day was but he is looking for the quick update not the actual sharing of information. I read your article on how it can create distance in the relationship and I definitely feel that. I do try to reach out to him but it is frustrating when I feel like it is so one sided. If I give him a lot of space then he wants to know what's wrong. I feel like there is no good solution to this problem. He used to be a lot more kind and I think that is what I miss the most. He doesn't even think the medecine is an issue. If I ask him on the weekend did he take it, because usually he is being so business like and rude. He gets offended, I feel like I am being judgemental of his medical condition. I am tired of feeling like I am the problem. However I know that all of our problems aren't because of him or the adderall. I just really feel it is making it worse and I can't even discuss it as part of the problem. I feel like pulling away and giving myself a break from the responsibility of the whole relationship. Not leaving just creating some space and some time for myself. I am trying not to take everything he does on adderall so personally. Any advice?? Thanks in advance! It feels good to just vent.
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