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I went into rehab on 2/22/18 after 17 years of abusing adderall and I have not gone back to using since.
It's pretty amazing when I stop and think about it. Adderall and dexedrine abuse completely fucked up my life. Don't use it for as long as I did. I was just reading a post from someone who said that it takes basically a year to feel normal after each year of abuse. I don't quite know what normal is but I know my dopamine receptors are probably completely off and I have to work everyday to get up, go to work, and engage in basic self care.
I was able to go back and get my bachelor's degree and get straight A's completely off amphetamines. I finally graduated in May of 2021. Since then I have had 2 jobs where I have been steadily working my way up. 2 years ago I was working shitty retail jobs and felt stuck. Now I am making about 45k a year and I actually have good credit, a car, and I'm responsible. I'm not where I thought I'd be in life but I really am trying my best to stop trying to compare myself to where I thought I should be by 40. I gave up alcohol twice.. on my second go-around of sobriety. About 6 months sober now. I'm just an addict; when I find something that makes me feel good I tend not to moderate.I saw a link on a recovery server I am on that posted to here and it just reminded me of this place - when I first was coming off amphetamines and dealing with PAWs the stories on this site made me feel so much less alone. I just want people reading this to know that life gets better. Life is not perfect by any means but I truly believe that amphetamines are the devil's candy and they will destroy your life in a way that no other drug will.
Not sure what the point of this post is but just had some thoughts I wanted to share. Stay strong everyone.
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Speaking of Ikea furniture...
in September I moved into a new apartment with a new roommate. (Was a few months clean, and moving out of my parent's home again). I bought all new furniture at IKEA..remembering how fun it was to put all that stuff together.
I got my nightstand and desk together. But my dresser is still sitting in the middle of my room, half assembled.My stuff is still not put away because of this and I can barely walk around my room.
Every day I look at it and feel terrible.
Any advice? I hate my life being in such disarray, and it's enormously triggering. I know if I had some adderall, I would get all this put together and I could set up my room in an ascetically pleasing way.
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Did you tell your doctor? that was definitely hard for me but I'm glad I did it.
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Sean, no one is disappointed in you. At least, I'm not. You spread so much positivity around here. I don't really know what else to say, except not to look at this as a failure. You came so far, and your journey is not over. You're bigger than this. It's just a bump in the road. I just came on here a couple weeks ago and one of the only messages I got was from you, and that meant a lot to me. You can do this. <3
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This is instills a lot of hope. How long did you use for?
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Thanks for the reply Sean. I gained a lot of weight too, and it has made me lose a lot of confidence. I only gained 25 pounds since quitting, but I was already overweight by about 15-20 pounds. The thought of going on dating apps and stuff makes me anxious. I have tried for a few minutes at a time. I used to play a lot of video games but I don't even have the motivation to do that anymore. Basically all I do is sleep, youtube, reddit, TV, work, repeat. My days off go by and I don't get anything done. What kind of stuff helps you feel better?
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I don't even know where to start with this. I don't even know exactly what I want to say. But I'm struggling, I guess. And want to share.
I'm 36 now and was prescribed adderall at 19. I was a sophomore in college. Ever since I was a little kid I was always told I probably had ADD, but I was never tested or treated for it. I always scored really high on standardized tests, but just sailed by in high school with C's. I was notorious for not doing homework, not studying. That sort of thing. My first semester in college I had a 3.88 average though, just by going to class, taking notes, and doing minimal studying. Then, I started to be prescribed adderall. My life went so far downhill it was unbelievable. Throughout my 20's, I dropped out of college, raked up 30k in debt, experimented with many drugs, moved back and forth from place to place, developed a gambling problem. Even when I first started taking it, I think I was prescribed 30mg xr's and I would take them before I went out, and drink a bunch and party. I lost a lot of weight. But as I got older, my script was usually 30mg IR's 2x a day. I would easily run out in 10-20 days. By the time I turned 22, I decided to join the military. I got injured and medically discharged but it was my longest time off adderall. (about a year).
When I turned 30, I had gotten back into school, and by a lot of accounts doing well. I got into a relationship though w/ a really bad addict, who introduced me to meth. Luckily, I only used for about a year, and never have went back to it or thought about it again. After finally ending that relationship, I was out of money, failed out of college, was spent in every way possible. I moved back in with my parents across country, and was still using dexderine. I was prescribed 30 mg 2x a day, but it was in 10 mg pills. So I would get 180 10 mg pills a month, and would easily take 12-15 a day, especially when my script first started. My life had gotten so bad. I managed to hold onto a job that I still have now (going on two and a half years) in retail, but my relationship with my mother had gotten so toxic, and i was never sleeping. I would go to work after not sleeping, and I really didn't have any friends.
In Feb of this year I met a woman who told me about how she was addicted to adderall. I had just gotten my script filled and met her randomly after I had left my lights on in my car (a common occurrence) and she had given me a jump start. She could tell I was on stims, and told me her story. After being up for 4 days straight (day one being the day I met her and had gotten my script filled)... I told my bosses at work I had a problem. I then drove to the VA (where I get my prescriptions and healthcare) and told my psych prescriber. I went to rehab about a week later. I've been sober since Feb 22.
I wish I could say it's all roses..but it's not. I am aware that I have accomplished SO much this year. (And while I am aware of it it doesn't mean I'm feeling as happy for myself as I should be.) I moved out of my parents house. (my roommate is the woman who inspired me to quit!) I'm enrolled back in college, I was employee of the month at work last month, I quit smoking. I still drink but it's not problematic or daily. Although I am being very mindful of that. I sleep every night, and just recently about a month ago even got off my wellbutrin. (Was taking 450 mg a day). I'm in therapy, I'm doing a lot of good things for myself. I have saved up about $5,000. (considering I had nothing in February, and I make very little money, and have had problems with shopping and gambling, this is pretty amazing... )
But I feel so empty...and alone. I haven't been on a date in over a year. I am not even motivated TO date, but I want someone. I moved into my new place a month and a half ago and still haven't unpacked my stuff. I have furniture that isn't even finished being put together. I don't exercise. I don't have any motivation to go out and be social. The anhedonia is still really terrible. I am not sure what I'm writing all this for but maybe someone can offer some guidance, or friendship. Or hope. Thank you so much for reading this. Love you all.
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My therapist told me that once! Don't should all over yourself lol. I tend to focus on the negative, what I should have done. I do this long and short term. Short term I can give you a whole list of what I have not done each day, and this keeps me stagnant. With my recovery I would beat myself up about how long I abused adderall, and how long it took me to come clean. That narrative overrode any sort of pride or accomplishment I felt for getting and staying clean. Cognitive behavioral therapy really did help me. I had this stuck thought in my head that I was a loser. I used to think that all the time about myself (along with other equally hateful ideas about myself). We're just all works in progress. I appreciate your kind words! I think it's important to take the past and learn and grow from it, and I may have used for a long time, but I overcame it. I'm not "broken" or a "loser". i don't tell myself those things everyday like I used to.