Hopelessness Posted December 23, 2015 Report Share Posted December 23, 2015 First of all, I love my fiance. But I feel that his addiction will tear us apart, and him from his son also. I know addiction is hard to overcome (12 years clean from rough drugs myself ) but he's getting way out of hand. I'm not sure what I can do. I know I was not in the right by trying to regulate his intake ( $ spent is monitored. ) only because the mood swings were unbearable. Let me also throw out there I Am add, have been diagnosed, but can't medicate because of his addiction, which pro ably make everything worse. I've tried just about everything, and am running out of ideas. even mentioning it, he get angry / mad / not himself. I've tried "harsh realties" to show him what it does and what can happen..... Nothing seems to kick this $300/ month habit Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LILTEX41 Posted December 23, 2015 Report Share Posted December 23, 2015 If he doesn't want to stop then you have to decide what you will accept moving forward. Are you willing to walk away if he refuses to get help? Does he know how much this is effecting you and that you are at or close to your breaking point? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hopelessness Posted December 23, 2015 Author Report Share Posted December 23, 2015 I've come down to the point where I told him he has to choose. If he cannot choose between his son/me and Addis by Feb when my taxes come in , I will be taking our son, myself and the clothes on our backs, and proceeding to move 800+ miles away to my sisters. If he doesn't think its a promise ( I've never threatened to leave before. ) then I guess shit will just go down hill forever. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlwaysAwesome Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 Unfortunately, he has to want to quit to be successful. I wish you all the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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