Freedom from adderall

I am also glad to come across this forum. I have been married for 20 years. My spouse started taking adderall prescribed by his family practice doctor 2 years ago. He has been a completely different person for a yr and a half. I suddenly became his enemy, he is very paranoid and suspicious of me. He has tried to turn family and friends against me. He isn't interested in things he used to be and doesn't seem to care about anything except his obsession at the moment. He is very narcissistic and has to be the center of conversations. I blame adderall for destroying our Marriage. I have tried to get him to go off of it and even had a conversation with his doctor about the side effects. The doctor continues to prescribe it. He also drinks quite a bit daily.