Hello everyone!
I've been on this site everyday for the past few weeks but finally decided to post. I love reading forums like reddit and feel like personal stories make a big difference when you're isolated on any kind of personal journey/issue. I'm so grateful to have found this website. I would love to connect with you guys personally as I feel so alone in this.
I'm 24 years old, was prescribed Vyvanse and Wellbutrin at age 14 but only took the Vyvanse occasionally up until college (age 19). Since then, I have taken it nearly everyday. I knew it changed my personality (more anxious, less silly/inspired) and made me very moody particularly in the evenings but I felt like it was the only way I could find joy in life. I have always dealt with depression, but at 19 I had set up my life to where everything I did was against the needs of my soul & spirit. I was BS'ing my way through online school, living in a big depressing city, and had started modeling with a big agency to make some money and feel like I was doing something exciting with my life. I'm a very introverted sensitive person and have always struggled to make friends. I was alone and miserable. I started abusing Vyvanse, my prescribed dose was 50mg but I would take 70mg a day at times. I know it's minor compared to most cases of abuse, but the drug took up the majority of my psyche and became the most important thing in my life. I would take it every other day to combat the rising tolerance and need to get high just to feel like I was happy for those few precious morning hours. Every evening I crashed I was completely suicidal, and on the days in between I was too fatigued and depressed to do anything.
This was the saga of my day to day life for 3 years until I finally discovered my true passion as a jeweler and got into the craft. I lowered my dose to 40mg, and took it everyday aside from the occasional once every week or two tolerance break day. This drug allowed me to succeed in my craft, but I was a robot, ignoring any family and friends and turning to alcohol every night to wind down. I eventually went down to 30mg when I turned 23 and have been there since. Although my side effects are much less at this dose, my addiction is still severe- I would absolutely PANIC when my script was out. Every night I still had some form of existential crisis, and my boyfriend was sick of my laser hyper focus in the mornings when I couldn't be present with him and enjoy a coffee. I was sick of it too.
On May 13, I told myself I'm taking a 2 week Vyvanse break. That was my goal. I wanted to beat my psychological an physical addiction and use it only as a tool for work 1-2x a week at most. The longest I've gone without it in 5 years is 5 days once or twice. I can't believe I actually achieved 14 days. I was bedridden most of the time but managed to exercise, get a few work related things done, and feel so much more present with my family, friends, and boyfriend. In between my general anhedonia I had a few glimmers of happiness unique to anything I've felt in years. But damn it was hard.
Once I reached the 2 week mark, I didn't know what to do with myself. My family convinced me to try to go 1 month, keep going even longer. I didn't plan on abstinence, but I didn't know what to do. So now I am at day 16. I feel like since then, I've felt even worse. I think it's because my body expected the drug as a reward for my hard work of 2 week abstinence, and then it didn't get that reward so now its protesting. I feel so numb. I woke up early, went on run, then got a giant coffee, and nearly fell asleep after drinking it. I spent the rest of the day staring at a wall. I don't even want to watch any tv or anything because I don't have enough dopamine to care. I can't stop thinking of Vyvanse and I worry that pushing the abstinence thing is making the addiction worse. It's like I'm glorifying it so much more than ever now.
Does anyone have experience with taking it once a week or occasionally after beating addiction- just to get some things done? Is it possible, or is abstinence the only way to go? I am desperate for some guidance.