Brecadena12

Hello everyone, I just found this forum and read what everyone has written. I’m in shock trying to process everything. My husband was put on adderall last week of September 2023. 30mg slow release and 20mg after lunch time. So basically 50mg to start with. After 2 weeks he told me he wanted to separate, said he was tired of fighting and that the medicine had helped him think clearly now. From mid October until now January 1st he has started dating the staff psychologist at his job, lied about many things to my face, has taken our 2 toddler aged kids to meet her, has missed work a ton, stopped communicating with his family. He was the man who would never call in sick when he felt like crap or really was sick, always paid our bills on time now this is the 2nd month he has forgotten, he prided himself on never cheating because he was embarrassed his dad put his family through that as a kid and when we went on a long vacation last year without the kids he was the one calling his mom twice a day to FaceTime the kids. Now he’s gone on vacations with this other woman #1 lying to me about where he’s at but also not even trying to call the kids. It will be 2 weeks since he’s last seen them and that’s not the kind of father he was. He hasn’t even noticed I left the state to be back with my family. He went from calling his parents at least 4x a week to none at all not even for Christmas to wish them a good one. I feel like I’m going crazy trying to figure out if all of this could be because of the adderall use or if it’s not related at all. It’s hard for me to wrap my head around a medicine doing this to someone. I miss my husband and the kids miss their dad but I just don’t know how I could go back after the infidelity l, regardless our kids need their dad.