Thank you for your viewpoint and advice Marissa. Since he is away at college, I agree with the support system you suggest. I think it would be great for him to have people in his daily life who are there to encourage and hold him accountable. I also like the idea of making sure you celebrate the small stuff because it may be huge for him. He just made the decision yesterday and today he called really excited because he studied yesterday without medication and took the test today without medication and he thinks he did great! One victory at a time.
I still don't completely understand the whole brain chemistry thing and the balance between what is right for any one individual....a non-medicated hard to focus person or a medicated not themselves person. Is it all or none, is it retraining, is it low dose? I'm sure it is different for everyone and I have a lot to learn as will he.