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I started taking Wellbutrin around month 18 of recovery. I am now at 3.5 years.I was depressed, and it brought me back to baseline. I also take a natural supplement called DL-Phenylalanine or DLPA from Pure Encapsulations. I order that online. I am so grateful because I feel 100% recovered from long term Adderall use. My wife has been so happy with it she thinks I should never stop taking it. But I want to wean off of it and see how goes one day soon.
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Its been a little while since I visited this site. Good to see your post. I am trying to remember when I first gave up the ambien. I think it was 30 days after quitting Adderall. I read this scary article or study about the dangers of sleeping pills long term, and decided they have to go if I want to have any chance of recovery and avoid long term brain damage. I was on the Adderall Ambien cycle for years. Now I am doing magnesium glycate and melatonin, and sometimes Benadryl. The ambien is funny. What a trip. Its like sleepwalking to the fridge, making meals, and making a mess without any consciousness the next day. I loved knocking myself out with that "Dirtstick" lol...it always worked in knocking me out. I think ambient and klonopin take a different type of battle plan and mental preparation. One of the other reasons I gave myself two years to feel like shit or put any career expectations on myself.
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Wow, cant believe nobody replied to this post. I got 2.5 years and I got through my first year doing AA and quitting alcohol. I think the key was giving myself enough time to quit and going to support groups at AA. Going to my higher power every day and following the steps. Hard to fail if you do the program and get support. Must give yourself enough time to adjust to sobriety before putting pressure on yourself. I gave myself two years with no pressure to succeed in my career. Just allowed myself to be a loser for up to two years...and now things are radically better. I get as productive at times now as I did when I was peaking on Adderall. Good Luck
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I have to chime in. I totally relate with your loss of confidence after quitting. I must have tried to quit 10 times over the past 20 years and always went back because I couldn't justify making a living without it. I chose a terrible career for underlying ADD, working as an attorney. I would get 8 months and then start freaking out that I am that I am not getting better faster. I would start up again and blast away through my files staying up late and billing like a machine to keep the partners happy. I am now 2 years and 3 months in my QUIT. I made it past the 8 months because after reading posts on this website I learned it takes about 2 years to get to some baseline of healing from our self inflicted brain trauma. I also read from a timeline posted by a "Cassie" that year 3 also has incredible growth and boy was she right. The last 3 months have been great. Not only does it continue to get better and better but good things are miraculously happening at the same time. I went from working for the "Man" to working for myself where I can work at my own pace. I Thank God every day for giving a small practice which continues to grow as my healing continues. I went from stressing about paying the bills to getting all my needs met working at half the pace. I could never seem to make this happen before when I was using. Good things didn't happen to me when I was using this medication. I had some fun times and good moments, but nothing was worth the cost to my personality, my spirituality, and my relationship. My wife says I am totally different and she loves it. She was also super supportive and forgiving for the first two years which is HUGE. I started taking Wellbutrin around 16 months which has helped with the depressive symptoms. It also seems to be helping my underlying ADD as well. I try to start my days with prayer and meditation. Don't quit quitting until you see the miracle. Pray every day. And maybe try Wellbtrin if your doctor goes for it. The growth spurts appear in hindsight. Let you family enjoy the real you. It will get so much better.
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Thank you guupo for sharing your story. Before I was ever diagnosed with ADD, before I knew the root of my problems, before adderall, i used drugs and alcohol quite a bit. Looking back, I would self medicate to get things done. At 24 when my career was just taking off, i started to use speed/meth for work..I was blown away at how effective I became on the speed. I didnt realize I had ADD and I kept using the meth until I....I had a terrifying spiritual experience...was it psychosis? or was it some sort of spiritual attack? i didnt care. For me it was real. I have been pursuing Jesus and reading the bible ever since. I am now grateful for that experience because it started me on my spiritual journey. My faith is now the most important thing in my life. It scares me to think where I would be if I didnt have that scary experience. Most people dont get that opporunity. I was an ignorant agnostic at the time using meth for work. The Lord allowed me to feel and see what life would be like totally separated from him. Now I am just an ignorant foolsih chrstian.
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Hi Dolsa, as long as you never quit quitting, your good. Curious if you can articulate your thinking just before relapse? Was it work pressure? What needs did you feel you couldnt meet without taking the pill? For me it was always the need for income/work which caused my relapse. I always figured my need to make money was more important than my need to quit. Money/survival came befor health for 20 years. That was always my rational.
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Congratulations!!! Amazing post. Thank you Quit-Once. 10 years of life without the adderall and retired. Now you get to live the good life.
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Wonderful response SS! I went through my own series of traumas and I am not sure I could have survived without adderall. But then again, sometimes I wonder if taking the adderall contributed to a pattern of thinking that attracted the next trauma. "As a man thinketh, so he is". Mine started off with the loss of my family. My grief was beyond and I wasnt able to function. Adderall kickstarted my life so I could manage. It pulled me out of the mud of depression and grief. But then I made a career decisions, took on an large start up company, which ended up in further truama. Again adderall helped get me through it and helped me fight for my life. I prevailed. But again, sometimes I wonder if my adderallic thinking put me into those predicaments in the first place. Then after my most recent clash with trauma, and suffering from a total burnout from the stress, trauma, and adderall, I finally surrendered and took action by quitting adderall and alcohol, went to AA, got a sponsor, and read tons of material by Emmit Fox like "The power of constructive thinking", " The sermon on the Mount", etc. and started to use the sprituial tools suggested in AA and Emmit Fox. It really worked for me. So it was the spiritual programs and literature that gave me the tools to cope. I learned to apply them in my daily life. And this forum is also a major tool. It helped me understand that becuase of my longterm use and trauma, its going to take up to 2 years to get well again. I gave myself permission to focus on recovery above my career or anything else for at least two years. I worked part time becuase I really couldnt work full time anyway without gettin back on the adderall. I was totally fried up. Crispy critter! Nothing left in the engine. Grinding gears. You know what I am talkiing about. The scary thing about truama is it creates patterns of thought that get embedded in our pscyhe. Adderall agravates the patterns of negative thoughts. We need tools to break those patterns up and the best tool for me was prayer and meditation and doing the 12 steps. Health and fitness also got my self esteem going. Giving myself permission to heal above all else! Giving myself permission to feel like a loser for up to two years has paid off enormously. I am almost there at 22.5 months and the last few months continue to show massive improvements. Geeze, its crazy how much my life has improved over the past two years and all the trauma and drama are gone. I think they are gone for good. I also took a greif class at the local church. Taking actions daily becomes a long term investment of health and recovery and soon enough you will realize life is good and you are free!!! I hope this helps.
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On monday this week, I got a ton of energy and clairty. I felt unstoppable. So excited. I am back!!! Better than adderall. No side affects. I prayed I made a break through. The next day I woke up and it was back to the same old sluggish recovery. Good performance for 1/2 day then lethargic. I am comming up on 2 years. I know that I will continue to improve, but I thought for a second I had made it all the way back. I got through the rest of the week ok, but nothing like monday. Does anyone else relate?
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Im a mom and I’m finally realizing it’s time to quit
speedracer replied to TAylor's topic in Tell your story
That was a great post Taylor - I am glad you found this site. It really helped me get past the toughest stages. telling your story on this forum is a great start on your road to recovery. We can all relate on different levels. The loss of personality, health, and ability to love in a healthy way is scary. The only thing I cant relate to is being a mom.I suggest you have an emergency plan for your baby when times get tough. Some sort of child care back up plan when or if you get hit with PAWS - It usually lasted 2 to 3 days for me - as long as I took action like hiking, nutrition, prayer, it passed. And hitting this site during those periods helped me understand it will pass and we are not alone. Hopefully you can get enough support from Dad, but if he has to work, maybe you can find someone else who can help. Build a support network. I did 12 step program for the first 18 months and it was super helpful. Doing the steps is a guarantee for a better life. Look forward to hearing about your success. -
365 days ago I made the decision to stop taking adderall
speedracer replied to Brit's topic in General Discussion
Hi Dolssa, I am sorry for your relapse. You got a year and thats darn good. Get back on that horse. I love the phrase, "progress not perfection". You got this. Coincidentally, I had conversation with an old friend yesterday about my failures at quitting Adderall in the past. He always encouraged me to quit. I told him I have 21 months. He was happy and surprised. I would always get some good time under my belt, even up to 8 months, then give up because my mood, ADD symptoms, fog brain, and depression overwhelmed me. I always figured I was the person who needs Adderall to survive in this crazy world. Its prescribed for a reason, and I was the reason. I never understood how long it takes for the brain to heal and recover from long term use. Our dopamine systems are shot. I think it takes 2 years to reach some sort of baseline. I have 21 months and still notice improvement. I did start taking Wellbutrin at 14 months or so because my wife insisted I had depression. It wasnt all about the withdrawl, or PAWS. I needed some more help than abstinence and sobriety. I took her advise, talked to my doctor and got a prescription for Wellbutrin. It worked for me and no side effects as far as I can tell. My quality of life got way better. I will probably wean off of it at the 2 year mark and see how it goes. So for me, addressing the depression was a big step forward. I enjoy golf and socializing now, I drink with friends about once a week. Before I had no interest in anything. I also think we live in an age of severe stress which contributes to depression. With the underlying recovery issues we face, the world and its stresses are likely to trigger at least some mild depression. And I think working a spiritual program daily is critical. -
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Hello there. I wanted to check in and post an update. I am 3 months away from the big two year milestone and life continues to improve. Thank you Lord!!!! Sometime around 15 months, I started taking Wellbutrin and it really did help me with the anadenia/depression symptoms. Everything was getting better and better until we bought a new house. Yippee...big news for us after quitting Adderall, but the stress from moving brought back the blues. Buying a new house should have been a highlight, and it is, but its been hard to enjoy it. Major stress was something I was lucky to avoid until the move. Its been 30 days now and I am so much better again. I got a stress rash for the first time and it kinda freaked me out. We are almost done with the adjustment phase. In a previous post I promised to share my experience with alcohol. After 18 months of total sobriety, I gave it a try. My wife wanted to celebrate on her birthday with margaritas and we went for it. It was fun. I have been drinking socially about once per week since and have had some good times feeling normal again. I did get sloppy one night for my friends 50th birthday, but what the hek. If for any reason, alcohol becomes a problem, I will hang up my cleats. Based on the progress the year, I am excited to reach the two year mark. I hope and expect my brain to improve further. Based on other timelines, we can expect to see improvements into the 3rd or 4th year. My work performance is probably at 60-70%. I would love to be at 80-90% without meds. My partner at work says he definitely noticed a big difference pre vs post Adderall. I am lucky to have a supportive partner at work and at home. Anyway, that’s it for now. Keep on trucking my friends. Have a great Easter.
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365 days ago I made the decision to stop taking adderall
speedracer replied to Brit's topic in General Discussion
Great post. Thanks for sharing. What a wild ride indeed. One year is HUGE!!!!! -
Congrats on 20 months! And two years is right around the corner. I am running on a parallel track. I got 20 months too. I've been so much better I havent been on this site too much either. This site has been such a great support for the past 20 months. I think I still get some PAWS even at 20 months. But overall, so much better. My wife still cant believe she put up with my adderall for so long. She says I am a completely different person. We laugh all the time now. And I am excited that we still have more room for improvement. Have a great weekend. Thanks for sharing.